If your kid is living in filth, that’s a very obvious sign of depression and “something wrong”. And if they’re not cleaning it, you clean it. As you’re a fucking adult and parent. Or hire someone to clean it. You don’t let your kids live in filth. What the hell is wrong with you?Wow, you sure showed them. By letting them live all fucked up. Grade A parenting. Something is seriously wrong when people are living in their own trash, that’s a sign even with ANIMALS that they’re under severe stress. Good job proving your daughter’s point that you’re a shitty, self-absorbed parent.
"My kid was acting so nice to me and then cut me off for no reason"
Your kid acted nice to you until they didn’t have to anymore, use your fucking brain.
If the result of all your “parenting” is that your kid does not want to see you and finds you toxic, then maybe there’s something wrong with your parenting. But no. Instead of trying to do better or figuring out what you did wrong, you’re spending your energy on defending yourself. Amazing.